Testimonials

(Betsy, 50′s)

“After years of depression, poor coping skills, self-help and anti-depressants, I finally decided that this was no way to live and I needed “outside help” to become what I wanted to be – at peace and happy. I had seen two other therapists who simply asked how did I feel and what did I think. I could do that myself, which I did, and get the same results – very little improvement and satisfaction.

I saw Judy’s ad in a magazine, looked at her picture, and had such a strong feeling that she could help me. When I called her, what impressed me the most was her sincere desire to meet with me for our interview together to determine if we were a good match for therapy. And thus began my journey of discovery and recovery.

Judy has such compassion and has taught me so many ways to handle various situations. She has given me the tools to master those negative thoughts and feelings that were so depressing, unhealthy and unproductive. At first I thought her methods would not work, but they do. It is not easy and does not work overnight. It takes time to reprogram the brain, but eventually things started to change for me and I could feel the healing process taking over. I am so blessed to have found Judy.”

(Helen, 30′s)

“Therapy helped me to stop dating losers – that is the only way I can say it! Judy helped me to understand how my childhood contributed to why I kept picking the wrong men. That part was easy – the hard part was to change the self-destructive patterns I had gotten myself into. She is an amazing therapist and you are lucky to have her in Charleston, now! By the way, I am getting married in May to a wonderful man… Thanks to Judy.”

(John, 50′s)

“As a Fire Officer with the FDNY I was dazed and numbed by the losses of 911. A close friend of mine saw me shortly after 911 and recommended me to a colleague of hers, Judy Heath. We started sessions immediately and Judy skillfully walked me thru the worst of times to be able to deal with the loss and the grief. Her compassion, warmth, and knowledge will never be forgotten.”

(Dianne, 30′s)

“I was going through a divorce and attending a “Divorce Group” at my church when one of the women suggested I see Judy. She told me that she had helped a lot of women in my position. I was so tired and stressed out that I just didn’t think I could add one more thing to my plate. Things got so bad, I finally called and it was the best decision I ever made. My life had become complete chaos, my children were miserable and I worried constantly. Judy helped me restore order to my life and realize that I could be happy again. If you are thinking about calling – do it! You will never regret it.”

(Elysa, 30′s)

“I have been in therapy on and off since high school. When I walked into Judy Burr-Heath’s office I had already done much of my work. That is to say I had worked through a lot of my history by processing it, mourning and moving on. But, I had a lot of relationships and behaviors that I found toxic and I wanted to actively change the way I handled my life. Judy was incredibly kind and supportive and gave me practical tools to help me extricate myself from some really bad relationships and helped me set up boundaries within the relationships I was not able to completely sever.

Some of my work with relationships presented me with a need to define myself better and to find a personal direction that would help me develop self esteem and focus my energy. Judy was also very supportive and helpful in those pursuits. She was able to help me break everything down into manageable tasks and goals. I am a much happier and more functional parent, wife and person because of my time spent with Judy. I will always be grateful for her time, care, intelligence and sensitivity. She is an exceptional therapist and a wonderful human being. “

Karen and Joel (50′s)

“We worked with Judy individually and jointly which strengthened our marriage. Little did we know how much it would be tested. A few years later, our youngest son became heavily involved in drugs and we had to make the heart-wrenching decision to send him to a therapeutic boarding school out west to save his life. Thankfully, our son has been reborn and our marriage is stronger than ever, neither of which would have been possible without Judy’s help.”

(Jim, 50′s)

“Judy helped me clear my head in each and every session we had. Even the most upsetting problem seemed less complicated and she would show me positive ways to deal with my troubled feelings. There was always a peaceful, easy feeling after I would leave her.”

(Patti, 40′s)

“Being 47, divorced and starting over with 3 children, Judy helped me refocus on the future – not the past. She reminded me that the worst was behind me. She helped me to trust and believe in myself and most of all, to never give up! She assured me that life would get better as I worked on getting better.”

(Katelyn, 14)

“My name is Katelyn, and I know for a fact that thanks to Judy I made it that far. I started seeing Judy when I was in 7th grade because I had an extremely difficult time coping with almost any obstacle in my life. A friend of mine had recommended Judy to me; she said that she had been seeing her for about a year at that point and that she would walk out of her office feeling so much better than she did when she went in. I am so thankful that I had a chance to experience that sense of relief as well. At my first session with Judy, although I had just met her, already I was very willing to open up to her. I would look forward to every session, knowing that I would be able to just “get everything out.”

“Judy taught me certain mental methods to help me get through bad situations when I was alone and not in a session with her. I must admit, I was surprised to find that when I used these simple methods, they worked perfectly. Before I started seeing Judy, if I was going through a rough period, big or small, I would lose control and have panic attacks constantly. But once I started seeing her, I would remember what she told me, and for the first time in my life I was able to control my emotions instead of the other way around. Even the thought of knowing I was going to see Judy later in the week would cheer me up; I have yet to find a better listener than her, or anyone else who understood exactly how I felt as well as she did. Anyone out there who needs someone who has understanding ears and a healing voice, Judy is that someone.”

(Katelyn’s mom, Jeannie)

“My daughter was only 12 yrs. old, when we felt she needed someone professional to talk to. Judy came highly recommended. A dear friend of mine had been having her own child in therapy sessions with Judy for several months, and felt she had already helped so much. My child felt nervous the first vist. She was also, very skeptical, but when I brought her home, all she could do was talk about Judy, how relaxed and “fun” the first visit actually was, and she could not wait to go back and see her. To make a long story short; my daughter, who was very insecure, depressed, and had a few other personal problems, had many sessions with Judy, who became, her confidant, a “friend” she could TRUST, and she changed back into a happier kid, and was able to cope with many things, she couldn’t before. She always called back, she is a very compassionate, kind, woman, I believe has a gift, for listening, and knowing how to use her knowledge, education, wisdom, and heart, to help her patients. I thank God for the time we had her here with us. We miss her. She truly has a gift.”

(Louis, 30′s)

“Being a New York City Firefighter, who was at ground zero, and who spent many days and weeks after in the search and recovery process for my brothers and victims, undoubtedly contributed to a tremendous strain on me. At that time I was engaged and eventually married a single mom with a child. Judy was a personal savior when things seemed to be spinning out of control. Listening to someone pour out their troubles, concerns and fears, is only effective if that unique individual is able to make you see things from both perspectives and direct you towards some inner peace to accept things as they are.

“I always carry a poem with me, entitled: “DON’T QUIT”. It is a perfect example of what Judy is all about. Judy was a comfort to me, and though I wish she were still here in NEW YORK, anyone seeking professional help has to look no further. She can be best described as the person holding the guiding light at the end of life’s tunnel.”

(Linda, 40′s)

“I believe that God led me to Judy and that He works through people. Her great patience and insight helped to reveal the truth to me about my relationship and my life. “

(John, 10)

“The best part about Judy is that you can tell her about anything, and she will understand you, and keep it private.”

(John’s mom, Margie)
“Judy taught my son John not only how to live with his many challenges( Tourettes Syndrome, Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, ADHD, death, divorce, child of an alcoholic), but how to overpower them to become the special boy that he is today. John is in a good place in his life right now and I know Judy had a big part in that. Judy was truly a lifesaver for John and myself as well. “

(Margaret, 14)

“When my dad suggested to me that therapy would be a good way for me to open up and let my feelings out, I was scared and against the fact of telling a complete stranger my most personal feelings inside of me. I was expecting the woman I was going to meet to be very judgmental and strict, but Judy wasn’t anything of the sort. The first day I walked into her office, after talking to her for only a few minutes and seeing her personality, I had a good feeling.
“My mother died and there was just so much inside me that needed to come out. I could never express myself in the way I really needed to, unless I was talking with Judy. She was never judgmental, making me feel comfortable to tell her anything I wanted to. She is also very caring and helped me to understand my thoughts and feelings as well as my life. She helped in a way no other person has, not even my best friends. I will always be thankful for having a woman like her help me in my life, for I do not know how I would have been able to be happy with myself if it wasn’t for her.”

(Heather, 30′s)

“Initially, I went to see Judy because my employer of 3 1/2 yrs, passed away due to Breast Cancer. I had more duties than I thought I could handle. I had suddenly become a full- time parent to the 4 yr old, I had only been caring for as a job. The child’s father had come to rely on me in many ways, as well. I found all this ‘responsibility’ somewhat overwhelming … but with the guidance of Judy; words of wisdom that I still call upon in rough patches, I have come to accept what I have to deal with. Therapy has enabled me to help, the now 13yr old’s world, to become more balanced and focused. And my life is the better for it. Even though we don’t get to see Judy anymore, we have adjusted to our new world with many THANKS to Judy.”

(Carole, 50′s)

“Judy immediately made me feel comfortable and reduced my anxiety level. Our sessions brought serenity to my otherwise stressful life. Each week she left me with a key phrase or visualization so I could remain focused on the progress I was making, continue to work on my own and stay calm.”